Sunday, December 18, 2011

Confrontations

We had a really nice day today. We spent most of it with my mum and this included going out for lunch with her at the South Bank and then listening to some choirs performing at the Royal Festival Hall.

Before we set off for that, we had gone to a craft fair near where my parents live. When we were walking home from that along a residential main road, there were two boys walking along the opposite pavement and I saw one of them throw something at a parked car that was on the same side of the road as us. The car alarm went off, and I then walked forward a couple of steps and realised they had smashed the car window.

I turned to them and shouted at them across the road that they had just smashed the window. I was so angry at the action of the boy who had thrown the object at the car (the other boy looked rather more sheepish). He just put the hood up on his top and tried to look all macho. The other boy just said it wasn’t him who had done it. I continued to shout at them and tell them how unacceptable their behaviour was and that I was going to call the police.

They decided to saunter off into the local park and seemed somewhat surprised that I followed them (and probably I shouldn’t have, but I was very cross!). They turned round a couple of times to see if I was still behind them and shouted a bit of abuse at me. I did by this point know that G was on the phone to the police, and was a bit of a distance behind me but within sight. I continued to head towards the boys, who had stopped in the middle of the park, and when they realised I wasn’t going to back down, they made a run for it.

I went after them, but at walking pace (I didn’t actually want to catch up with them as I didn’t know what they might do). They had disappeared by the time I got out the other side of the park. I briefly looked about for them but they were nowhere to be seen. So I headed back to the car they had damaged and by that time the owner had actually arrived and my mum had already spoken to her and explained what happened. I spent a few minutes talking to the woman and gave her my details. The police had also been by that point and had gone in search of the boys. The police phoned me a while later, which made me think they hadn’t actually found them. The police officer was really nice and thanked me for what I had done.

It was probably unwise to have confronted them and then to have gone after them, but I was just so angry that they could have done something so mindless. I just knew that I couldn’t be the one to back down because that would have sent the message that trying to be a bit macho meant that they could damage people’s property and intimidate people. I would have been really angry with myself if I had just let them get away with it. I also didn’t want the owner to come back to the car and find the window smashed and have no idea what had happened. That said, I don’t know what I would have done if they had turned on me...

8 comments:

TF said...

Good on you ....

ChrisB said...

Well done. We know we shouldn't get involved but I would have done exactly the same! Glad it all worked out. Merry Christmas! :)

Kahless said...

You could have been stabbed!
Take care
X.

Cornish Dreamer said...

That's brave. But scary! I'm glad you are safe.

Random Reflections said...

TF - Thanks. I hope you have a good Christmas

ChrisB - I am pleased you would have done the same. As a Londoner, my experience of people is that they are often indifferent. Have a good Christmas.

Kahless - I will wear a stab proof vest every time I go out in the future! Have a great Christmas x

Random Reflections said...

Cornish Dreamer - You snuck in there while I was replying to the other comments! They faced my wrath. I don't like senseless vandalism. I think they might now realise this... I hope you have a great Christmas.

Sarah said...

Good for you! I recently told some teenagers off for making racist comments. Turns out they didn't fancy abusing me, which made the initial offence somehow worse. Still, it wasn't in London and there were CCTV cameras. I think you were very brave, but do be careful!

Hope you and G are having a wonderful Christmas. Best wishes for the New Year :)

Random Reflections said...

Sarah - Thanks. Sorry for the slow reply. I have been in Scotlamd for the last few days.

Yes, that is (sort of) worse that they were ok with racial abuse - but better for you that they were not so willing to abuse you.

I haven't heard from the police since that day, so I assume they didn't catch them. I hope I scared them enough that they wouldn't do it again. That might be hoping for too much though.

I hope you had a good Christmas and have a great New Year.